Tuesday, March 15, 2011

WHAT LADIES FIND ATTRACTIVE IN A MAN

WHAT  LADIES FIND ATTRACTIVE IN A MAN

Does it mean that you have to be all these things in order to attract beautiful women into your life? No way! The universe has a weird way of working and you’ll be attracted to the one you were meant to be with. She’ll love your faults, your weaknesses and your strengths. Have faith, believe in destiny and you shall meet your soul mate. You’ll know it when it happens.
A confident attitude towards life. Confidence indicates that you are successful and are to be trusted. When you trust yourself, others will as well. Women will trust you with themselves
Physical height. Height provides a sense of security and comfort which is very attractive to women. Being taller is also a dominant trait which is attractive. Ultimately, if you are short but can provide a feeling of security and comfort, this will be equivalent to height.


  •  A Fit Body :Not everyone can devote an hour at the gym everyday. However, you don't need to have a membership at a fitness gym in order to achieve a fit body that attracts women to men. All you need is to exercise at home to get rid of unsightly bulges.

  • A Sense of Humor :Having a sense of humor is one of the most attractive traits a man could have. It's the way he cracks a joke, the way he laughs at himself and the way he finds even the simplest things comical. This is what attracts women to men.
Guys with a good sense of humor are attractive because they send out a lot of good vibes. Girls have this uncanny intuition about which guys are great and which are bad news. That, along with smiles and smiling eyes, makes any person look 20% better.  
  • Goals and passion :Your passion and goals in life is actually related to how high your status to other people. If you achieve things in life like being successful in a business or simply winning a contest, it can be really easy for you to attract the opposite sex. I’ve heard one saying that said ‘you should make yourself the right man first before you find the right woman’ Love yourself first and have the guts to achieve all your dreams because achievement is related to status and status is related to how attractive you are to women. 
  • Being playful. Playfulness means that you are fun to be with, consequently triggering feelings of attraction in women. 
  • Being touchy. Human touch is a powerful way to trigger feelings of attraction. Naturally touchy people have a lot more sex than people whom refrain from human contact. This is important when you flirt with a girl. 
  • Bravery. Being brave, alert in emergency situations is very attractive and indicates that you will be able to protect her from danger. 
  • Being excited about life. The energy that people emit when they are excited about living is contagious and very attractive. 
  • Being unavailable. People want what they can’t get. Being hard ( but not impossible! ) to get is attractive. 
  • Being concentrated on a task is attractive to women. If a woman can watch you while you are completely involved in a task, then she is likely to be attracted to you. Examples of this can be her watching you play an instrument, anything you do well that requires full absolute concentration on your part. 
  • Being famous.If you’re famous, then by definition a lot of people know you. If a lot of people know you, you are therefore important. Being important is very attractive to women. 
  • Being well dressed. Wearing nice clothes demonstrate social status; accentuate your physical features and shows that you take care of yourself. 
  • Shoes that are in style. The first thing that most girls notice in guys is what kind of shoes they are wearing. Shoes speak more about you than all clothes. You can be wearing a diaper on your head, jeans from the 80’s… but if you’re wearing brand new shoes that are in style, girls will automatically see you as attractive. If you don’t have the shoes… get them. 
  • Well fitting shirts. Baggy shirts are out! Shirts should complement your body and show off your features. Now I’m not talking about spandex, but regular well fitting shirts. You know why suits look good? Because they are tailored to fit you perfectly. This is attractive to women. 
  • A deep, commanding voice. Your voice says a lot about you, literally. The next time you strike up a chat with a woman, don’t sound squeaky. 
  • Body language :People often associate body language to status. If a guy has poor body language (hunched over and hands in the pockets) then he will be perceived with low status. On the other hand, if a guy has good body language (standing up straight and chin up) then he will be perceived with high status. Women want guys with high status so if you want to attract women, start thinking like a guy with high status because that is what really attracts women. 
  • Some light, musky cologne. These smells will mimic the natural smell that males produce and used lightly, will arouse some females. 
  • Leadership. Being a leader is very attractive to women, it demonstrates social status and importance. Make decisions, lead the pack. 
  • Being dominant. Women are naturally submissive, and men should be naturally dominant. 
  • Being dangerous. Danger is hot, exciting, energising and can be very addictive. Some women love bad boys. 
  • Being intelligent. Intelligence, demonstrated by high grades, an impressive line of studies or career is very attractive. 
  • Being good with kids. Same as above. 
  • Being genuinely interested in her. People love people whom are interested in them. If you genuinely want to know what makes her tick, this will be attractive. 
  • Being the best, in a group of men. If you are the best out of the competing men, then out of that group, you will be the most attractive to women. 
  • Being disciplined. People want to be surrounded by competent individuals. If you are able to control yourself when she can’t, she will see you as having a lot of willpower. This demonstrates that you are in control of your life. 
  • Not taking life too seriously. Having the gift to be able to laugh at life and embrace it as an enjoyable experience. You don’t have to think about marriage every time you talk to a girl. 
  • Being generous. The complete opposite of being selfish, being generous can be attractive as well because it demonstrates that you are not needy and that you are wealthy. Note! Being generous does NOT mean you should buy things for people so they like you… this is not attractive. A good example of being generous would be, if you’re with friends, you could purchase the pitcher of drinks. This subconsciously communicates that you are in charge, dominant and wealthy. 
  • Trimmed nails. Women notice, if you take care of yourself, she’ll appreciate it. 
  • Relaxed attitude. Being relaxed shows a lot of confidence. 
  • Nice teeth. It is very important to have nice teeth, women think about it every time they consider kissing you. 
  • Having nice possessions, such as a car, house or a boat. These indicate wealth, excitement and power, all of which are attractive. 
  • A sense of adventure. If you’re curious about life, and are willing to take risks. You can lure her into your world and she’ll be happy to follow you past her limits. 
  • Honesty. Being able to speak the truth is difficult and shows that you have accepted who you are as a person. It also shows that you don’t care what others think, which is very attractive. 
  • Whispering in her ear. The sense of secrecy, mysteriousness and excitement that comes from a whisper is very attractive. 
  • Being busy. If you are busy, then you are important, independent and have a life. 
  • Being genuine. Say what you mean and do what you say. This is hard, but attractive. 
  • Physically picking her up. Ever heard of sweeping her off her feet? This is it. 
  • Touching her hair. There is something about having your hair touched that is relaxing and arousing at the same time. 
  • A nice face. Women love men with an attractive face. That’s what she’ll be kissing and you better believe it makes a difference. 
  • Experience. Maturity can be very arousing; if you know what you’re doing she’ll appreciate it and you’ll get laid more often. 
  • Speaking to her true self. If you can see past the walls that most people put and truly speak to the real person inside of them, you’ll be one of the few that understands them. This makes you very important. 
  • Composure. If you can keep your cool under stressful situations, she’ll notice. 
  • Being challenging. Playing hard to get is as true for women as it is for men. People want what they can’t have, and if they have to work for something, they’ll appreciate it much more. 
  • A man that loves to have fun. Everyone wants to be around a guy who enjoys himself, be that guy. 
  • Caring. Compassion and caring show that you will be a good father and is therefore very attractive. 
  • Being respected. If your entourage respects you, then she will as well. 
  • Loyal. People do not want to get hurt, and will avoid you if aren’t loyal. It is better to remain single than to get into a relationship you don’t plan on staying in. 
  • Romance. Spicing it up in a relationship is critical and attractive. Don’t always do the same thing because it will get boring really fast. 
  • A mysterious grin. There’s something about a grin that arouses curiosity and intrigue. 
  • Being extravagant. Sometimes going over the top is good, if you can let yourself go from time to time, people will notice. 
  • Quick mind. If you can think on your feet, and are quick to reply to her playful teases, you’ll be seen as smart and alert. A woman would rather be with a man that stimulates her intellectually rather than someone who is brain dead. It is much better to find something original to say on the spot rather than to use pick up lines. 
  • Attentive to details. It’s the little things that matter, if you notice that she’s done something different with her hair or her nails when no one else does, she will appreciate and be attracted to that. 
  • Being knowledgeable about various subjects. If you are versatile, then you’ll never be short of conversational topics. Being flexible and able to adapt to all kinds of situations is attractive. Go read some books. 
  • Innocence. It’s no fun when you know everything, have tried everything and have been to the edge and back. A little bit of innocence is attractive because it makes you more human. There’s always something that you haven’t tried, let her know and invite you to try it with you. Asking for her advice is alright as well. 
  • Challenging her. Forcing her to be on her toes, teasing her, is exciting and attractive. 
  • Be yourself, the good yourself. You shouldn’t try to pretend to be something that you aren’t. You should grow and continually improve, but remain genuine. Don’t hide your faults, everyone has them. The old saying,” be yourself” is very true and is ultimately what will attract the woman of your dreams. 
  • Teasing her : Finding something to tease a woman about is easy. With a bit of creativity, you can deliberately misinterpret pretty much anything she says. Throw in some exaggeration, and try to be random and unpredictable. This is something you can train like a muscle.There are some things you want to bring up when teasing or playing with a woman:
You and her

Bring up the (imagined) relationship between you and her quickly! The most effective teasing happens when you picture her as your pursuer. “This is never going to work out between us“, “you won’t get into my pants that way” or “I’ll keep talking to you if you stop checking out my ass” are some sample remarks.

Her perceived personality

playfully suggest that she’s evil, naughty, boring, drunk, egocentric, spoiled… clumsy… or a devious schemer. Anything you want. Trust me, as long as you keep it playful and fun, they’ll love it. It will often trigger a “no, that’s not true!” response from her, and if she has taken some interest in you, she will try to clear her name: “I really don’t drink that often! I swear!
Which allows you to follow up with: “now you’re just trying to impress me. I’m not that easy.

Say her name

This is so easy, it’s ridiculous. Shake your head and say: “funmi, funmi, funmi. What are you doing.” The sooner you say her name back to her (just append it to any of your statements), the quicker she’ll realize that you made an effort to remember it. Also, people really like hearing their name, and if you say it in a slightly misgiving way – like a mom scolding her child – they’ll always laugh. This is almost infallible. So, for you to remember:

So you see, what attracts women to men is not just about having it all. All it takes is one right move and you're in. However, it's also not a bad idea to aim for all of these attractive qualities. You will be better for it in the long run as well.


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